Lessons from Abraham
The Window, March 2010

The wonderful experience of hospitality called Abraham’s Tent has moved on from NHCC to other congregations. Many church members were enthusiastic in their participation and moved by their connection with the guests and with each other. What may have seemed like an impossible suggestion became a collection of faithful tasks, meals, and conversations. As we look ahead to a project of exploring how we can be a more welcoming and nurturing congregation, there are some lessons we might learn from Abraham as he greets strangers by the entrance to his tent in the heat of the day.
(Gen. 18:1-15)

Relationships begin with hospitality - When basic needs are met, and comfort offered, space is opened for appreciative conversation and meaningful encounter.

All are due hospitality - even enemies and criminals! This is the ancient custom toward travelers and strangers in the Middle East. The offer of a place to rest and pray, a bite to eat, and sincere welcome is fundamental to love toward neighbors.

Hospitality is not controlling - a generous hospitality does not exert control over guests. The blessing Abraham and Sarah receive from the Lord, as their guest, is precious and unanticipated, although not entirely surprising.

Hospitality changes us - both guests and hosts are touched by the practice of hospitality. A generous openness to those we welcome will instruct and shape us.

God is present in our midst - This seems obvious, though it may often be assumed that the hosts are bringing an experience or awareness of God to their guests. Indeed, it may be Christ who comes as the guest!

Hospitality takes practice. We must know who we are, and what we are about, if we are to share meaningfully with strangers. We must anticipate the needs of those who come as strangers into what seems so familiar to us.

Think of a precious experience of hospitality you have been offered. What helped you move from feeling an outsider, to feeling at home?

Shalom, Scott Morrow